Archive for February, 2010
Are you staying in an unhappy marriage/relationship for your kids?
Do you think staying in an unhealthy/unhappy relationship for your kids sake is a good solution, considering that they know you are not happy and may carry this warped idea of what love is with them into their own future relationships?
That situation only works if the parents are on good terms and are friendly with one another. Even then, it’s a stretch. Divorce is hard on children, but you are right to worry about what you inadvertently teach them about love by staying in an marriage lacking love.
In the end, children like to see their parents happy. Happy parents keep the home atmosphere positive, and the growing experience for children is far better.
It’s good that parents think of their children when making life altering decisions, but the parent must also take into consideration their own happiness as well.
My husband and I are having serious marriage problems.?
We both love each other very much and want to work it out.
Where do we start?
There are many ways to resolve some, or perhaps all, or the issues in your marriage. The first thing you have to be sure is that you want to resolve the problems.
Firstly, in a quiet time of your own, write down all of the things which are troubling you about your marriage. This will help to ensure that you keep on track when you are ready to talk about it all.
Secondly, make sure that when you and your husband are ready to talk that there are no distractions. So send the kids out to the grandparents, put the tv off and make sure the phone is unplugged. Maybe try to put some music on which reminds the two of you of the happy times you spent together.
Thirdly, and most importantly, talk to your husband about how you feel openly and honestly. You can never, ever, ever be criticised for being honest with each other (think back to your marriage vows) and try your best to keep your cool.
Ensure that you afford your husband the chance to put his point across. In every conflict there are two sides, so please be willing to hear each other out.
Don’t bring up old conflicts, try not to make generalisations (such as "you never" or "you always", be willing to confess any mistakes you have made, and above all please, please, keep your sense of humour throughout. Love is based on an ability to be honest, open, humble and through laughter.
I hope everything works out well for you.
I need help with my marriage?
so here’s the story;
my wife, Brittaney and I fight all the time. We have three kids and they don’t need to be around that.
she says it’s my fault, because I don’t spend enough time with the kids, I don’t help out around the house, and I’m not always there to support the kids.
the problem with that is, I travel for my job so I can’t spend the time I want to with my kids, I work for a living while she cleans because she does not currently have a job, but I still do everything I can around the house, and again when I’m on the road for my work, I’m not able to go to the kids choir concerts, and sports games.
what can I do here? I can’t quit my job, I don’t want to leave my wife, but our kids don’t need to be exposed to this type of yelling and screaming at each other.
we even have another kid on the way.
Have you ever asked her how she expects you to be in two places at the same time?
What is the best marriage advice you can give me to make it work?
Husband and I get along good but I’d like to know from some married people what there secrets to success are, please advise.
Gracie plain and simple we sometimes treat our partners worse than we would treat our friends
So my tip is treat your hubby like what he is your closest and dearest friend . Oh and in the bed room rock his world teee heee
Can i claim my child. Please help this is kind of hard question.?
Ok my question is me and my wife have been married and living together for over four years, and she had a child (my step daughter) in a previous marriage. My stepchild lived with her grandmother in the philippines till november first of 2009. So even though she has only been here for 2 months of the year and is a permanent resident and i have been supporting her sending money at least 200$ a month for the past 4 years she wasnt living with us. Would i still be able to claim her on my taxes? Some say i could still claim her just not as eic. I know there something else,but it applies to kids from mexico and canada. So to sum this up, me and my wife have been supporting my step daughter even though she hasnt lived with us,only because it took so long to get her permanent residency wich she got and moved to florida with us the last two months of 2009. Nobody else can or would claim her. Would i be aloud to claim her on my taxes or no? can you please explain why ?
She is not a u.s. citizen but she is a permanent resident. Tax lady if i understand correctly your saying i can claim exception only? Should i do that or just not claim her at all?
200 a month is alot in the philippines. At least thats what im told. 200 was also the minimum.
So, is your stepdaughter a US citizen?
If she is a US citizen and you can prove she made else than $3650 and you provided more than half of her support, you can claim the exemption under the qualifying relative rules. A qualifying relative does NOT get you HOH, EIC, child care or the child tax credit.
If the child is NOT a US citizen and you elect the first year choice (child came to US in November 2009 and stayed the rest of the year), see publication 519 on her behalf, you can claim the exemption ONLY. Again as "Qualifying Relative."
Since the child did NOT live with you in the US for more than 6 months of 2009, you simply cannot get EIC or the child tax credit.
I have been married to a muslim man on august 2007 in tamil nadu under the Christian Marriage Act.?
I have got a certificate which is not in stamp paper. It is provided to me by the marriage registrar.I want to know if the certificate is valid? Now i am in kerala. Should i register in kerala once again?
Certificate provided by the registrar of marriage is perfectly valid and you are legally husband and wife. my best wishes for a happy married life
she really dose love me again!
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