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what are the different attitudes towards marriage from male and females?
Im writting a paper for this subject but my mind is blank and I need help please help!!any suggestions are great
Well the whole monogamy issue is different from each perspective. Females want monogamy more than anything because marriage is a union in which most people have kids… They need a man to support them. As for a guy, the only required commitment is really 15 mins in the bedroom. Of course, many men do stay with their wifes… Just there’s still cheating and everything. Just the female gets screwed over more.
Our dog helps with a marriage proposal!
Our GSD, CJ carries the engagement ring to the unsuspecting bride to be. Liza and Dan are friends of ours and Liza just loves our dog CJ. Dan asked if CJ could be part of this surprise and I was happy to help out! Liza had NO idea what was going on. 
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I apologize for the funny camera angles, I had to set the camera on a desk and cover it so Liza wouldn’t wonder what was going on. I also was sniffling through much of this, it was really touching.
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So I smashed my husbands Xbox against the wall HELP !?
I need some input…. I am currently seperated from my husband because we were arguing so bad, we needed a break. My husbands best friend lived w/ us for 7 months and I just had enough one day. I came home and our house looked like sh*t and my husband and his friends were playing xbox and I took the xbox and smashed it against the wall.( I know I lost my mind) but I’m so tired of sharing my life with all my husbands ghetto friends (the last one had a swatizka on his head and I had to tell my husband that his 2nd racist friend can’t live with us) I put up with my husbands cheating, irresponsibility, ghettoness for too long. (6 years)
Well of course during this time I connected with an old friend who wants me bad. He is a lawyer and has own home, takes care of his 2 boys, is educated, travels, has class. He has all the qualities I want in my own husband.
I was debating leaving my hubsand, but we decided to go into Christian counceling. He moved his friend out and got rid of the dog that he never took care of and wants to move home. My mom thinks I’m crazy and I’m avoiding the inevitable. We have 2 kids and I just want to make the right choice….. What do you think? Just wondering if I should keep my marriage going. Husband has issues, but he does make me happy (most of the time) or the potential new guy that is a complete southern gentleman and has everything to offer me. I am 29 btw
BTW – I don’t plan on using my "friend" and wouldn’t jump into a relationship with him. I just realized that there is so much more to life than what I am living. And when I got with my husband I was probably ghetto myself… but I grew up.
You can’t live and be unhappy.
Make a choice and stick with it !
I live in north Orange County, you made me laugh when I read "ghetto"
then see you live in South OC.
Good liuck
after 30 years of marriage its just to boring not fun anymore help?
ok he has cheated like forever now he’s fat & over it and treats me like he should have but now i feel like my life is almost over & wonder what if? what would you do?
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Im muslim and pregnant outside of marriage i need help!!!!?
Hi i am 19 years old in the US i am a little over two months pregnant. I am not married and my boyfriend is christian, i have been with him for two years. i dont know what to do or what my parents will do to me. I am scared they will either get a heart attack or kill me. They are very strict and my dad thinks i shouldnt even talk to any guys. I cry every night please help!
we told his family a few weeks ago they are very supportive. i am a citizen and i have grown up here. i dont know what to do i think getting an abortion would be wrong
we told his family a few weeks ago they are very supportive. i am a citizen and i have grown up here. i dont know what to do i think getting an abortion would be wrong
Well, you need to tell your parents first off. Yeah, they will flip but you will start to show the pregnancy bump in about a month and you can’t hide it much more. You have committed a big sin and you have to ask for forgiveness from Allah. Fear Allah more than your parents. If you fear they will kick you out then make an arrangement with an aunt or uncle and see if you can stay with them for a while. If you are too afraid to tell your parents alone then have an aunt or uncle be with you while you tell them. You have made a big mistake but it’s not the end of the world. And Again ask Allah for forgiveness over and over again.
Ask Victoria: Viewer Topic: Intercultural Marriage…HELP!
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Sarah has written in about her intercultural marriage and the immense meddling of her in laws. The couple has not established good boundaries and have left themselves very open to having their life choices being overrun by his parents who are of a different culture than Sarah. Mainly, the culture difference isn’t the real problem, the lack of firm boundaries on the couple’s part is the true issue to be dealt with.
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What should I get my boyfriend for our 6 months Anniversary? HELP!?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months, but have known each other as friends much longer. We live together and we’ve started talking about marriage. I know he’s the one because I feel like I fall in love with him all over, every morning. Our 6 month Anniversary is coming up in 8 days and im not sure what to get him! He is deployed right now, but will be home in 5 days. He is a very fit and in shape guy, but he LOVES to eat. Like literally LOVES it. Every morning I cook him breakfast before work, pack his lunch, and dinner is on the table when he gets home. It always seems like he has an orgasm in his mouth every time I cook.[LOL] He also loves cars, especially his own, Dodge Charger [Those were just some ideas of things he likes]. Well any who, our 6 month is coming up and i’m not sure what to give him. I enjoy nature and he enjoys food, so i’m taking him on nature hike/picnic, but I want to get him a special gift. Something that lets him know, I really KNOW him well and i’ve never wanted to be with anyone like I want to be with him. This is REALLY important to me, because I secretly know what he got me!! And there are 3 surprises he says, and I secretly only know one. I need to have an equal amount of romance for him!! Please help!!
Honestly, cook him some food, then go to sleep like you normally do leaving him unsatisfied. While he sleeps start tying him up a little bit until he is immobile, wake him up, start teasing him and lead to some kinky sex. No violence because I doubt he’s a masochist, but make sure he knows you are in control and he will fall in love. You will want to buy some good equipment, learn some techniques, and practice because using duct tape will just wake up him, but you can use that once he is "secure".
Can i claim my child. Please help this is kind of hard question.?
Ok my question is me and my wife have been married and living together for over four years, and she had a child (my step daughter) in a previous marriage. My stepchild lived with her grandmother in the philippines till november first of 2009. So even though she has only been here for 2 months of the year and is a permanent resident and i have been supporting her sending money at least 200$ a month for the past 4 years she wasnt living with us. Would i still be able to claim her on my taxes? Some say i could still claim her just not as eic. I know there something else,but it applies to kids from mexico and canada. So to sum this up, me and my wife have been supporting my step daughter even though she hasnt lived with us,only because it took so long to get her permanent residency wich she got and moved to florida with us the last two months of 2009. Nobody else can or would claim her. Would i be aloud to claim her on my taxes or no? can you please explain why ?
She is not a u.s. citizen but she is a permanent resident. Tax lady if i understand correctly your saying i can claim exception only? Should i do that or just not claim her at all?
200 a month is alot in the philippines. At least thats what im told. 200 was also the minimum.
So, is your stepdaughter a US citizen?
If she is a US citizen and you can prove she made else than $3650 and you provided more than half of her support, you can claim the exemption under the qualifying relative rules. A qualifying relative does NOT get you HOH, EIC, child care or the child tax credit.
If the child is NOT a US citizen and you elect the first year choice (child came to US in November 2009 and stayed the rest of the year), see publication 519 on her behalf, you can claim the exemption ONLY. Again as "Qualifying Relative."
Since the child did NOT live with you in the US for more than 6 months of 2009, you simply cannot get EIC or the child tax credit.
Michele Weiner Davis Q&A – Wife Wants Out
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