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my sis is getting married, plz i need a long list of hindi marriage and fun songs to dance on….plz help me..?

i would prefer hindi songs mostly….some emotional and rest all happy-go-lucky fun dancy type of song:)<3

soniye ve (dhak dhak) – kismet konnection
tera hona laga hun – ajab prem ki gazab kahani
teri ore – singh is king
pehli baar mohabbat – kaminey
dil bole hadippa remix – dil bole hadippa
mauja hi mauja – jab we met
falak tak saath chal mere – tashan
guzaarish – ghajini
jee karda – singh is king
tere bina – guru
koi jaane koi naa jaane – aur pyaar ho gaya
mast kalandar – hey baby
ghoonghat mein chand hoga – khubsoorat
sajaan tumse pyaar ki – meine pyaar kyun kiya
rab kare tujhko bhi pyaar hojaye – mujhse shaadi karogi
laal dupatta – mujhse shaadi karogi
bole chudiyan – kabhi khusi kabhi gham
sajna tere pyaar mein – kya dil ne kaha
mera yaar dildar bara sona – jaanwar
thoda sa pagla – aur pyaar ho gaya


When I die does my husband automaticly inherit ALL, what about my adult daughter from another marriage?

I have a business that is doing much better since we got married 7 years ago, my husband left his job and is working the business with me. Everything still in my name (sole prop.) including the bank accounts.
the cars we drive, neither of us gets a salary, we pay our bills and the rest goes back in the business to buy more products etc. My husband can run the business alone without my help. I am ill and have few months to live, I have a will written after I married this husband giving everything to my adult daughter from a previous marriage. I am leaving her the business, my personal property and whatever money is in the bank accounts, I don’t leave any in the personal account. I am struggling with this now and not sure what to do, my daughter knows about the will, my husband does not.my daugher lives on her own and was never involved in the business. If possible can you give me both the legal & moral aspects.

That’s what wills are for- If you don’t have one yet, I would contact an attorney.


Men & Divorce – Help for Life After Marriage

When it comes to men & divorce, help is not as easily available as you might think. Because of the mans traditional role as breadwinner society and the media especially tend to focus on the plight of the woman who often ends up with the kids as well and their financial difficulties and so on and so forth. Nothing against this, but it is not just women who have it rough after divorce these days and I dare say even years ago!

Recent studies have shown that it is actually men who have the hardest time coping after a divorce not women. There could be many reasons for this but a few common problems seen are:

  • Men handle emotional turmoil badly
  • Men often lose custody of children adding to stress
  • Men are often more dependant on the support of their wife emotionally where women have a better network of friends and family to help them
  • Men are often not used to looking after themselves

Not all of these may apply to everyone but the emotional toll on a man after a divorce can cause depression, anxiety and often leads to some seriously foolish actions that come from bottled up feelings and mans greatest asset and liability; the need to do SOMETHING.

This is where men need to stop and think about things. Some men will hit the dating scene too soon without addressing their emotions and others may wallow in depression for a similar reason and that is they do not know how to deal with the whole experience and there is hardly any support for men after divorce.

However if there is one thing men are good at it is solving problems as long as they have the right tools. So in this situation you have to look at yourself and your journey after divorce as a project to work on, you need a plan, you need to investigate things, you need tools be they people to lean on, information of other people in the same situation and so on and from this you can slowly come to grips with this new life because it will never be the same again … but you can rebuild it stronger and with more insight than before.

If you want more help to undertake this task to end the misery of life after divorce then click below to inspect a guide that gives you a blueprint for success.

http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/divorce/

James Fargo
http://www.articlesbase.com/divorce-articles/men-divorce-help-for-life-after-marriage-700294.html


MY WIFE THINKS I AM CHEATING?

I HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM. MY WIFE AND I HAVE A VAN POOL TO WORK. THERE IS ANOTHER WOMAN HER HUSBAND AND ANOTHER GUY. WELL I BECAME GOOD FRIENDS WITH THE OTHER WOMAN, I CAME TO HER FOR ADVISE ONE DAY ON HOW I CAN FIX PROBLEMS IN MY marriage. I WANTED TO GO OUT WITH MY FRIENDS AND GO TO BARS AND CLUBS, THINGS LIKE THAT. THE OTHER GIRL ACTUALLY EXPLAINED TO ME THAT MY WIFE NOT WANTING ME TO GO OUT AND HER BEING JEALOUS WAS NORMAL CAUSE SHE LOVED ME. ONE DAY THE OTHER GIRL HAD TOLD ME ABOUT A CONCERT THAT HER AND HER HUSBAND AND KID WERE GOING TO I BROUGHT A GUY FRIEND AND I WENT ON THE WAY THE GIRL SAID HER HUSBAND CHANGED HIS MIND AND THAT HER AND THE KID WERE GOING ME AND MY FRIEND WENT AND ACTUALLY MET UP WITH HER THERE TO SAY HI, HUNG OUT A LITTLE AND I WENT HOME. HONESTLY THERE WAS NOTHING MORE THAN THAT BUT SHE IS NOT BELIEVING ME. I FEEL LIKE I AM JUST A BROKEN RECORD AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY. I LOVE MY WIFE AND FAMILY. I START COUNCILING NEXT WEEK. BUT IN THE MEAN TIME MY MIND IS ON EDGE CAUSE I DONT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO SAY.I WOULD ALS LIKE TO MENTION THAT I DID KEEP THE WHOLE DAY FROM HER UNTIL LAST NIGHT I LIED AND THEN I ADMITTED I COULD NOT LIE. DOES ANYONE KNOW WHAT I CAN DO. PLEASE HELP..

Maybe she just doesn’t understand you due to the lack of punctuation and THE CAPS LOCK KEY BEING STUCK.

Huh. Just typing that, Y!A gave me a tip that using all caps can be perceived as shouting. I bet everyone gets it who posts in all caps.


Marriage too soon? Help?

Ok, I am currently 21 and my fiance is about to be 38 on August 12th of this year. We’ve been together for a good 5 years! She was 32-33 and I was 15 when I met her (started dating) When I turned 16, I ran away to live with her and her family on a farm in Wisconsin.. everything was good! Moved back home/got our own house when I turned 18… and so on..

Last week she proposed to me and I was literally speechless, because I didn’t know what to tell her right then and there. I literally left the house and went to a hotel… that I am currently in, this very second. I’m a guy, but I’m not afraid to admit that I don’t know what to do about this situation; I’m not ready for marriage. There are so much things I wanna fulfill before settling down… I mean…

What should I do? What should I tell her?

Well, I think you should tell her if you think you’re not ready. If she loves you, she’ll understand. If you both love each other very much, and she understands, you guys should get married at an age where you both are ready.


How can you get over your ex after 25 years of marriage if you still love her some 5 yrs after the divorce?

I have tried prayer, involvement in any group imaginable, and involvement with other women who are clearly interested in me. I still see and talk to my ex on a fairly regular basis and on each and every occassion my seratonin level explodes. Help!!

I was basically in the same situation. Before you do anything, Check out this website. It has many info that tells you exactly what to do to get your ex back. It saved my five year relationship. Hope that helps. :)


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need opinions on what to do about my marriage?

i have no job i’m a high school drop out i have 4 kids and my huband is verbally abusive i have talked with him several times and things would change for about a week and then goes back to the same old stuff i want to leave but i see no way out and i know he will put up a big fight and i’m scared he will run off with my kids i cant live without them what should i do please help!!!!! I want to be happy again and i know i deserve better

Having had that happen to me (my ex kidnapped my children and got custody of them at a time when I wasn’t working and was a stay-at-home mom), I can say this: do not leave until you are ready. Now, if there’s abuse and you’re worried about the safety of the children and yourself, that’s a different story. When abuse is involved, you go to a shelter and get out at all costs now. However, if you’re not afraid for your safety and well-being, you need a pre-divorce exit plan. Remember: hurting people hurt people and, in a divorce, especially when kids are involved, things can get very messy. Far too often, we say "I want a divorce" before we’re fully ready for the consequences. You need to listen to your intuition and set yourself up so when you say "I’m leaving you", you can do so with no problems. Remember: stay ready so you don’t have to get ready…


I want to change some negative traits/habits that I had but I keep getting pigeonholed by my wife. Help!?

If you look at most of my questions it’s either about sex, love, or arguments (all dealing with my wife)… I’m realizing that if I want to improve my marriage it can only begin with me. The thing is, every time I try to do something "out of the ordinary" my wife pigeonholes me and says something along the lines of "well, we’ll see how long this lasts" or "I don’t think you can keep this up"… Her comments aren’t without merit, I’ve tried to change but either due to lack of support or lack of time, I have fell short in the past but now that I’m a stay at home dad I have all the time in the world, I just still don’t have the support…

My wife isn’t very open about what makes her happy, it’s an on going guessing game… The good news is, sometimes I can read between the lines in an argument and guess at what’s bothering her… The thing I don’t understand is if my wife is so unhappy with the way I acted (like she says she is) why wouldn’t she come out and tell me what things I need to change to make the marriage work better (I ask her all the time) and also why would she pigeonhole me and not encourage me when she see’s I’m TRYING to make a difference (some men would just leave when communication is this poor)…

One of the things that I’m doing is trying to be less "attention-starved"… I’m not going to lie, I’m a pretty smothering guy (I’m a cancer, can’t help it); when my wife is able and available, I want to hang out with her (why get married if you didn’t want to spend time together the rest of your life?)… After posting several questions on here, it sounds like most woman don’t tolerate attention-starved, needy, smothering guys so I’m trying to let her have her space and do her own thing but after doing this for the past 3 days I’m finding she’d rather be alone reading books then spend some quality time with me (perhaps the vampire romance books she’s reading is compensating for the relationship she’s not having with me, I dunno)… Regardless, this seems to be what SHE wants so I’m going to stick to my guns and give her the space but I’m afraid this might be the beginning of a very long streak of not spending any time with me (so far, she’s said "hi" to me and the kids and hid in the bedroom to read her book, then when she was finished with her first one she went on to the next one, leaving me to care for the kids… Again, I’m a stay at home dad, she’s the 40 hours per week bread winner)… Only time will tell if she’s just being selfish or if she’s testing me, just seems like a good marriage would have a good balance of together and alone time in each day…

Back to the issue, my wife thinks very little of me and has no respect for me, what things could I do differently to earn her trust, respect, and her high regard back?

Wow. This may very well be the most intelligent "question" I have read here so far. Here’s the thing, your roles are reversed. Your wife is acting the role of the 20th Century man and expects you to act the role of the 20th Century woman. I’m not saying it is right or fair. But that is what’s happening. She thinks she has a right to act superior to you because she is out there as the breadwinner. Shame on her. And I would say the same thing to you if your situation were reversed. The fact is there is no distinction in the importance of what each of you do for your family. Criticizing your efforts speaks volumes to her character. Sounds as if she thinks very highly of herself (despite the fact that her choice of reading material is questionable at best) and finds you beneath her. My advice, do your best to encourage her to a sit down. Tell her exactly how you feel. But most importantly, realize that she can’t make you happy and you can’t make her happy. We can only ever find happiness within ourselves. Good luck.


I convince my wife to get an abortion but I want to get a divorce?

After a long debate and a lot of crying (she wants children), I convinced my wife to get an abortion by basically saying that everyone is doing it because the economy is making it a bad time to start a family. I told her that this abortion could help save our marriage because I threaten to leave her if she did not get one. However now after she has had the abortion I feel I need to divorce her, How can I tell her I want a divorce, she already got the abortion

Wow you really are a Special kind of jerk, and that’s putting it nicely!!!


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