How can I stop my parents from making me do my confirmation?
I’m not religious. marriage is a patriarchal construction. I need help.
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marriage has lost passion – I need help from seasoned married people – !!?
My sex life is dwindeling. We have been married a little over a year….and its gone downhill.
I don’t think there are any mechanical problems on either side — and I do not have a low sex drive.
Its just when we finally have the time to have sex —it feels very artificial. I don’t feel in the mood — I feel forced and like I am supposed to feel excited/horny for him and I totally don’t. I have just all but stopped feeling sexy around my husband at all. I have to force it.
IF he knows this — he doesn’t even want it….here is the problem —– I never feel in the mood when he is around.
I can feel sexy alone – masturbate, fantasize about him and others — but when he is here — I feel like he just lays next to me —stairs into space and waits for something to happen. Then I start to feel anxious, wondering if I look fat, the mind starts racing.
I’ve tried to tell him nicely and in every way that I feel like I need some help from him —- after several tries at this conversation —its become a screaming match that all I do is bitch – not ask…that its not HIS problem that I don’t get horny anymore — to go deal with it on my own, read some self-esteem books,etc.
How do I get myself horny enough to WANT to get a place to have sex with him when he is around? What is missing? Why don’t I feel sexy around him?
Here is the best part — he is a perfect husband. He listens to me complain, holds me, works 2 jobs, does the dishes, tries so hard to make me happy, buys me flowers — there is NO reason for me not to want him. Whats my problem?!!!
Please – I will take any advice.
Ps – We have been to marriage counseling — and its helped SO much in everyway, but I don’t feel like talking about this to a counselor.
Pastanaut — you are more right than you will ever know. I am going to go blow my nose, wipe the tears, and try to write in my journal….thank you.
1. A year is certainly not long enough for you sex drive for him to go downhill. Although, you think you are okay I would still go to the doctor and find out if something is wrong. I know that when I am on the birth control pill my sex drive goes down. Ask it doesn’t hurt.
2. Masterbation is a natural thing that everyone does but if you are having trouble feeling sexy around your hubbie, I would cut it out for a while to see if it helps you be horny around him.
3. You say he is the perfect husband, but yet fights with you when you try to tell him about your concern… Not such a great thing…
4. Feeling sexy has more to do with you than with him… More confidence is needed on your part… Yet he can help… by telling you how beautiful you are… buy you lingerie… giving you a full body massage… foot rub… etc etc He should be involved in turning you on… A lot of times when men get married they feel that that is it they have won their price… explain to him that this is not the case that he still need to work in order to get you… all guys love to work a little for it… 
5. Good LUCK!!!
Help My Wife Doesn’t Want Help Me With This……………………?
My wife has says she didn’t sign this for me. Well I have a 18 year old daughter from my first marriage. I just bought her a car 2 years ago and my wife said I should let her get a part-time job so she learns to count on herself and we should just pay part of it not all of it. The thing is my daughter can’t keep a job and I can’t do anything about since she lives with her mom in different state. At first her mom said she will pay for the insurance but at the end she didn’t so I’m paying for insurance as well. Also I’m still paying the child support as well as my daughter’s braces and in a year or so I have to pay for her college and take loans in fact in the process of applying for loans. I asked my wife to co-sign for the loan since she has a perfect credit but she told me this morning she had it and she is so sick of this endless funds and she is tired of working over-time and I either shape up or she is out. Also, I was still make payment for about 6 mo for the old house that I had with my ex so it won’t go foreclosed which it did 3mo ago ‘cause I just could not make payments. My ex don’t work since she is a loser and has 7th grade education. Anyhow, what should I do now my wife insist on leaving me and don’t know what to do. Married 6 years wife 27 I’m 38. I will get another job but in the military and I have to be available 24 hrs beside I get deployed a lot. My wife makes a good money about 7k a mo and her job lets her work overtime and pays her extra while mine even if I stay longer I don’t get paid overtime. Please help I know is not fair to make my wife pay for my past mistakes but what should I Do? Oh me and my wife we do have a 5 year old.
She should leave your loser ass and your loser ex NOW.
Marriage Help 101 -what to Do if your Marriage is on the Rocks
Sometimes, no matter how much we try and the amount of hours we spend listening to our spouses, it just doesn’t seem like enough. Perhaps you’ve heard the litany of problems to often for it to affect you anymore, perhaps you’re depressed and apathetic, making it hard to even care; maybe you were completely unaware that there were problems until the day your spouse burst on you, maybe your partner seems like a constant nag or ball of anger; no matter your situation, these responses and many others are indicators that your marriage is on the rocks and close to the proverbial cliff.
Remember that the more you deal with your little problems, the less big problems you’ll have. If your spouse is feeling neglected, be sure you make a conscious effort to spend time with them, even if it’s just a once-a-week date night. If your spouse doesn’t do something like a simple chore and this annoys you, let them know nicely and don’t nag. If they have a problem, don’t roll your eyes and tune them out; even if you disagree with their words, they’re telling you how they feel. Take it as that, not as a tirade or personal attack.
However, even coping with these problems is often difficult and dealing with them takes more than being a good listener or communicator. So you know how your spouse is feeling; how do you fix it or deal with it?
Sometimes you can’t, but most often, you can. If you’re a do-it-yourself type, go on the internet and look for sites counseling and helping people with marriage problems. Join a couple forums and learn from your fellows. If you can, include your spouse and try solving your problems together in this fashion. Read about other people’s experiences together and this may help put your own in perspective. Even chat room support groups are a good venue for connecting with others who are in a similar situation.
If you’re not a self-help type, don’t’ have the time, or simply want professional help, see a marriage counselor. Even if your marriage seems great, seeing a counselor can help weed out niggling issues before they become big ones. And if your problems are already huge, a marriage counselor can help you get a clearer perspective and figure out how to start resolving your problems.
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Help! I just need my breath of freedom !!?
I feel like writing a bloody novel out of my life!
God i hate my scorpio mom!
I hate when she now treating me like i am a total loser
whilst treating my sister more with praise just bcos she is
on my mums level in terms of marriage, culture and traditions
i just grew up differently believing in other ways like adapting to
the western but still following the traditon ways.
I feel like killing myself if i feel i am totally trapped and have no other
choices. My sister somewhat understands me but at the same time
also telling me about this issue. I just feel like moving away from my
mum and my sister who does not understand or respect my opinion.
I think they think i’m too immature for marriage or just childish but thats
just not the case, i just dont wanna be unhappy for the rest of my life spending
my life with someone without any intimacy, affection or any respect from the guy
i may end up marrying. It’s sickening to the stomach right now for me.
I feel there’s a small light ahead of me to get out of this darkness but i
still got more to come over, or something. Like Do i need to stand up to
my mum or is she gonna mistaken that me being disrespectful? she does
these little things that irratates me. I’m like emotionally prisoned. Cos i cannot
speak properly like articulate way i end up doing things like smashing plates or glasses.
All i do now is cry, but not as much as i used to. I’m trying to find ways to get out
of this imprisonment.
I’m a muslim girl hunni and im bengali, it dont work like that, but praying to god yes.
I feel bad for you but please see the positive side to this. Make a plan to be successful make a plan to be happy. See your dreams everyday and say to yourself that one day i’ll be able to be where I want to be. Do a little effort, with that effort you wont let yourself down. This might sound cheesy but be that soldier we were all meant to be since the day we were born. A course there might be bumps ahead of your road but look at it in a way that that bump will make you stronger. One day you will be happy and at this moment of your life that you are feeling horrible be thankful that you are one of those lucky people to be alive on earth, so do your best everyday and cherish every moment of it. Do not worry you will soon be free and Happy. : )
Looking for a book on Marriage, Similar to "The Love Dare"?
I am looking for a book on marriage, I watched the movie Fireproof last night, and looked up the book "The Love Dare" later on. Although I really like the aspect of the day by day approach the book takes, and the activities the book asks the reader to do, I do not like that the book is so religious. I am looking for a non denominational book similar to "The Love Dare" that I can share with my wife and help improve my marriage. Any suggestions?
Look, I haven’t read the book you are talking about so far then my suggestion can be easily silly.
Some years ago I read "The bridges of Madison County" (1992) by Robert James Waller and I liked it. It’s the story of two people who meet and fall in love. It sounds easy but it is not, as she is married but not happy and he is a single free lance photographer.
Mind you, it’s not a story of a love affair!
It deals with life, love, happiness…
It’s the book the movie by Eastewood is based on.
Hoping I helped you, bye
Alberto
would marriage help our situation?
SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE…..
if my boyfriend and I got married (we’re turning 19) would we be able to qualify for public aid etc.we are both unemployed and are currently living with my mother and her friend (who is also unemployed) in an apartment that costs 950 a month. She makes about 2000 every other week but she is out of work a lot because of health situations. We have piling hospital bills. The apartment does not include heat/ac, gas, or electricity and also she is paying for a telephone/cable bill.
also we live in illinois
im in school and i have financial aid but they dont give me enough to cover living expenses
marriage NEVER ever ever solves anything, just by asking this question shows your immaturity in regards to marriage. Don’t do it – dooooon’t dooooo it.
Can my mom legally sell my dads inheritance and items acquired before marriage?
Im 16, my mom and my Dad became separated 3 years ago. My Dad pays $350 a week for child support and still my mom thinks she isn’t getting enough. My mom has been selling many things that belonged to my dad before the marriage. After he moved out she took a thick chain and chained up one of his 200 year old cupboards that contained one of only four complete sets of a certain type of China in the world. She also sold a baptismal certificate from the 1800’s that is in his family name. She is now threatening to sell many of his most prizes inheritance such as his china, his $70,000 silverware set he inherited, over 40 different guns that he acquired before marriage, and worst of all, one of his family members was in the American civil war and she is threatening to sell his muskets, civil war swords, ammunition pouches, and a framed poster signed by Abraham Lincoln stating that my father’s ancestor in the civil war was a survivor and a war hero. She already sold $40,000 of scattered china sets that belonged to my Dad’s mother. My Mom is insane and she brought home her boyfriend from Canada who thinks he knows allot about guns and removed from its box rapping and fire a 20 year old M14 never before used and in its manufacturers box degrading the weapon’s price by over $300. My Dad can’t take this and I want out. Can my mom legally to this to my Dad’s inheritance and items acquired before marriage? Please help me and tell my what I can do to get her to stop. She is controlling and won’t listen. Also please if you can include where you got the source for your answer. Thankyou!!!!!!!
anything they had before they got married is not community property. she cannot sell his stuff.
why doesn’t your dad stop her. he needs to get a lawyer and stop her from doing what she’s
doing. he can go over to the house with a cop and get all his things that weren’t acquired
after they got married. your dad needs to do something. when you know your mom’s going to be
gone tell your dad to come get his stuff, its his she can’t do anything about that.