marriage relationship

I have heard that Marriage changes a relationship for the worse. Has anyones relationship ever got better?

Has your relationship or anyone you knows relationship got better with Marriage?

Their is no such thing as a perfect marriage or a perfect partner relationships, so why get married or get into a serious long term relationship -right?? But every single night, I enjoy hot sex with my wife, day in and day out! For the past 14 years of marriage. I get to hug her, kiss her, caress her, snuggle up tightly every night, even though we both have heated arguments at day time.
Enjoy the moment of happiness now, because tomorrow may never be the same ever again. Just take your not so 100% perfect marriage life one day at a time. Thanks God for the creation of a beautiful woman. My life would really suck, if women in this world did not exist. Cheer Up!
edit: If U R 100% healthy with no health problems, then live it up to the max! 40y/o Life of a Party husband here!


Realistically, how many years older should the man be than the woman in a dating/marriage relationship?

is there an age limit? realistically to make a relationship work.

between 2 to 5 years.


Which are the 3 most important factors in maintaining a healthy marriage relationship


For me its trust, communication and lots of love and understanding. I’ve been married for almost 7 years and we’ve done just fine using those factors. I couldn’t be happier!


Does this usually work out with a long term relationship/marriage?

IF you have any stories of this working or not working out, please share.

A couple that were together for 5 years, first real love. One partner left the other for another person but ended up going back because they can’t live without that person even if they developed feelings for the new person. The 5 year relationship had problems and broke/got back together for a 3rd time, do you think it could work?

Going back to an ex, do you think it could really work?

Ummm….I did that dating/break up cycle with someone who I considered to be my one true love. We are both now married…to other people. And I’m glad.

If I had a time machine and could go back in time, I would go tell my younger self to lick my wounds and find someone else after the first time I broke up with my "soul mate." By going through the relationship a second, third, and fourth time, etc, all that happened was that I wasted so many years on this guy that I denied myself the opportunity to be a bio-mom. I’m the world’s best step-mom and I love the girls to pieces, but I would have liked to have made babies from scratch.

After that guy and a subsequent make up/break up relationship, I decided that once I break up with someone, there is no going back to that person. The next man I dated, married me.


Your Opinion: 5 traits that could ruin a marriage/relationship?

What are 5 personality traits that a lover/spouse could have that is sabotaging their own relationship/marriage without even knowing it?

in the order of importance.
1: Being female
2: Being Violent
3: Being Abusive
4: Not being in love
5: Being Female


How is the best way to make any Relationship or Marriage work out?

I mean how do i get the best out of my Relationships or marriage and Making my Partner Happy too.

communication is key.
rub her feet from time to time,
also it wouldnt hurt to surprize her from time to time either by..you know, sending flowers to her work or showing up at her house with flowers.little things like that means ALOT. you know just get creative and romantic alot of ladies love that stuff


What is the MOST men your women can be with before you CONSIDER an intimate or serious/marriage relationship?

Opinions PLEASE?! Why are some guys so attractive to women that have been with hundreds of men? and some no?
How many have Madonna been with? and Cher?
Can you men consider being with a virgin? or would they even consider "being" or "touching" a woman that had plenty of men? would they get angry if they did not tell them?

I was a 1970 Hippie-If met a virgin back then-she lied about it! I would worry if I was starting to mount and a hand popped out to help me in!

BUT THAT SAID: this is a great question-just too many answers. I have sex in the here and now. If I’m loved by my female-then that is all that really matters to me-those before are of no real concern to me-she wanted me-not them.

Now all those kids from past lovers-that’s a whole nother issue!


What is your best tip to making a marriage/relationship work long-term?

I’m not looking for sex tips. Just real things to help a couple stay together and close. I love my husband very much and want to do everything I can to be a good, loving wife. I think that requires thought, willingness and effort. We are far from perfect, but I can see that time has helped us understand each others needs and we have both made improvements in how we handle arguments and react to one another.

What helps you and your s/o remain happy together?

Best tip? Don’t compete with him. You’re a woman. Act like
it. Don’t act like a man. You don’t want him to act like a
woman, do you? Role reversal will ruin a marriage. Accept
your individual strengths and fill in for each others weak-
nesses. Men don’t think like women. Don’t try to undermine
his manhood. Admire his intellect, courage, and stamina.
Don’t detract from those "macho" traits that make him a man.
Help him, if he asks. Your femininity is a gift. Don’t use
it as a tool. Don’t play head games. Don’t waste time play-
ing "Hint". Tell him what you need and want. You may not get
it all, but if you’re good to him, you can be sure he’ll
try. And if love fades, consider it a temporary condition.
Tip toe through it. Use your loving tenderness at every
opportunity, but don’t patronize. Men sometimes act like
boys, let him. He may be inept at something, don’t accent it. Let him love you. Let him not love you. If he’s working
hard, don’t stop him. If he’s not, gently motivate him. Don’t take anything for granted. Know him, his moods, his
joys, and his troubles. Add to his joys, not his troubles.
Don’t ever stir up the bad from the past. Expect the little
problems ahead, prepare for them. Don’t make life changing
decisions based on bad temporary female feelings. Never put
anyone before him. And remember: men aren’t always the
brightest crayons in the box. Give him chances to get it
right. Don’t just say it, but reaffirm your love often,
especially when things are going wrong. Don’t forget what
you’re fighting for. Remind him, if needed. And if he does
this for you too, you should be fine. One more thing, turn
off the T.V., it is filled with silly notions of what love
and struggle are all about. And about the sex tips…
just kidding. Sweet dreams, you two.


Which marriage is system is most suitable – Arranged marriage , Live in relationship or Contract marriage?

What I mean by contract marriage is all "terms and conditions" of financial sharing , duration of the relationship , issue about raising kid are converted into legal agreement. For more marriages to be successful , my view is we need to pick up best of all. If you have a relationship , involve someone to do due diligence and ensure that all factors like family history , likelihood of hereditary disorders etc are considered. Then have some moral agreement about financial arrangements and then get married legally. What are your views ?

I think you bring some excellent points to the table.However,I feel it is imperative that you like as well as love the person you are about to marry.It would be nice if the two of you had things in common,such as likes and dislikes.Lastly I think there should be a mandatory requirement to live under the same roof for a period of time,chaperoned of course.The fool proof marriage system hasn’t been invented yet.I guess we’ll have to continue with trial and error.


Marriage from a islamic perspective

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