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PostHeaderIcon How can I save my failing long term relationship?

We’ve been dating for just about a year now and have had a pretty smooth relationship, save our one big problem: internet gaming. I hate games like WoW and Everquest and he simply can’t get enough. Rather, he’s completely addicted. He’s since quit but now has what we call "attacks" nearly every day. He gets depressed and moody for long periods of time most of the time resulting in a minor argument or me in tears because I’m scared I’ve forced him to change. However, I still stand firm that if he’s addicted he shouldn’t be playing. He doesn’t think he is, but can’t be happy without the stupid game. How can I save us?
I know one year is not long term. However, we’ve already discussed long term plans (i.e. living together, possible proposal, etc). So by long term I mean, we’re going to be together for a long period of time, possibly even till death do us part.

He is actually addicted. I have psychology degree so I’m not just flying by the seat of my pants.

I’m not co-dependent and have plenty of my own hobbies.

He has a large amount of hobbies he has replaced the gaming with. The problem is he still suffers from depression due to this game.
And no, I am not a family marriage therapist. I work with little kids, so this is completely out of my range.

He has to save himself in order to save the relationship. You arent the one with addiction so there is NOTHING you can do do to save the relationship. You have to convince him to get help. Its either your those damn games. Tell him to cut back on his playing time. If he cuts back a little each day then he will eventually stop being addicted. Why dont you both take up a hobby together, that way he isnt playing video games and you two can have time together.


PostHeaderIcon How can I save a relationship?

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while but recently he said that he thinks the odds are against us saying things like "the distance, age difference" He lives an hour away and i’m 15 and he’s 17… It sounds stupid, he’s perfect for me and I really can’t mess this up. To add to it, I’m out of school already (just got out on friday) and he gets out wednesday, I’m leaving wednesday to go out of town for a week and a half. Ahhhh I don’t know what to do!

alright alright, juss chill. okay, so first off. if he really did like you, he wouldn’t keep saying all the things that are wrong with the relationship. and an hour away? that’s not bad. and okay, so you won’t see him fer awhile, that’s okay. distance makes the heart long fer the other :]

good luck! :D


PostHeaderIcon How can I save my relationship with my best friend?

Lately, my best friend has been acting different around me. I don’t know why, but it’s like they don’t want me around anymore and that she doesn’t trust me anymore. Every time she needs help, it’s always somebody else that she would ask, even though I’m basically standing next to her. It’s like I barely exist anymore. One year ago, it was really different and this just started about 2 weeks ago. I don’t understand what’s wrong, because she’s happy around other people…

That is awkward. To save the relationship, you can ask her directly about what is wrong. But from what I am seeing, she seems to have changed and even if you asked her in the nicest manner, she may just get angry and continue on ignoring you…

Well, something must have happened, but even finding out what it is might not actually save the friendship. So here is what you do, continue being ncie to her, and is there is a sepcial event coming up aka someone’s bday, try organsiing it together. :)

Also, she doesn’t seem to trust u? So in order to gain her trust, you firstly must trust her. Tell her something that you’re worried about and see how she responds, surely even as a small friend, she should comfort you. And then the friendship would heal, gradually :)

But if she doesn’t comfort you and continues igrnoing you,,,she has some problems,,,or maybe you did something really offensive to her and didnt know (but I doubt)

o, you can also get her a small gift with a card :) saying how awkward it has been and brush it off with a joke.

Good luck and best wishes :)
dear, you try/tried to save the friendship, if she doesn’t appreciate the friendship, then she’s not a good friend worth having.


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PostHeaderIcon What can I do to save my relationship with my GF, when my parents want to move?

I’m a 14 y/o middle school student, and my parents want to move. Me and her have been dating a while, and I don’t want to lose her. I love her a lot, but my parents want to move out of the country soon, and they’re not sure when. If they do move, (I’m pretty sure they will) chances are I’ll never see her again. I’m pretty much in tears for the whole month. What can I do?

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she really dose love me again!

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PostHeaderIcon rob & kristen: cold desert

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I was working on another vid, but then I realized this was fitting for right now. It’s been a month since we last saw them together and now it seems the only relationship they have is with the paparazzi’s asking about their elusive relationship.

This is for Diandra, who was so kind and wonderful enough to save my prev vid. I dedicate this to you and hell, all my other vids from now on! Also thank you for allowing me to post this vid after i saw yourse with the same interview in the beginning….please note that there is no COPYRIGHT intentions when I used that audio. Please forgive me.

This video is made for entertainment purposes. I do not own the music or the clips. No copyright infringement intended.

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PostHeaderIcon How can I save my relationship if i’m afraid will not work out?

We don’t do things for one another because I feel he is irresponsible sometimes, I have to request of him many times to do something and he gets angry that I keep asking him to do things, and bottom line we don’t respect each other as much anymore.

Lady! You need to get out of this situation fast, if you know it will not work out, why do you stay, life is to short to waste it, I know what I am telling you, if you do not let go now, you will regret it and suffer the consequences later, when you are older, Get out and start a new life.

PostHeaderIcon How do i save my relationship?

My boyfriend is mad at me for going in his phone. I found a text that he sent to a girl saying he want to see her this week no matter what. He said nothing is going on, they are just friends but i think she want more, in one of the text she said she wonder sometimes what why they never got together 2 years ago ad want to know if he ever think about it.

I hate to say this but it sounds like he might be hiding his true feelings from you. He may have feelings for this girl and doesnt want you to know. Especially since he got mad at you for going through his phone. If he has nothing to hide, he wouldn’t be getting mad. It also sounds like this girl is stirring up trouble. You need to ask him if he really wants to be with you or not seriously.

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