Christian Domestic Discipline
Angie the Anti-Theist talking about the website http://christiandomesticdiscipline.com and my own abusive marriage.
National Domestic Violence Hotline http://www.ndvh.org/ (800) 799-SAFE
Domestic Abuse Hotline for Men and Women (http://dahmw.org/) has a 24-hour hotline at (888) 743-5754
Abuse Victims Hotline (which helps with referrals to local agencies which can help you file restraining orders) http://www.avhotline.org/
Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network RAINN http://www.rainn.org/ (800) 656-HOPE
If you’d like to read more about my story feel free to visit my website http://angietheantitheist.blogspot.com If you need to talk with someone, please call one of the numbers above. I am available to talk as well through email, phone, etc. but I encourage you to contact one of the above organizations if you are in immediate danger.
Don’t forget, if your life is in danger – CALL 911!
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Non consensual …
Non consensual consent? Sounds like something Orwell would dream up.
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@Wearenightlifegirls Good for you! Keep Mum safe girl!
@LouiseOC1 eww!
@LouiseOC1 eww!
Boy, do I know what …
Boy, do I know what you’ve been through– Been there. Glad you’re out and safe. No one should have to go through that.
@LouiseOC1 Well, …
@LouiseOC1 Well, that’s too bad. Most women see themselves as equals to their husbands. Not children/property.
Not everyone who …
Not everyone who practices DD does so for religious reasons, for some it is just a way to get along better, bring them closer together etc. Very often it is the woman who desires the relationship strongly, and persuades the man to try, it, in some cases the man is quite reluctant. DD, for many people, improves their marriage immensely.
Not everyone who …
Not everyone who practices DD does so for religious reasons, for some it is just a way to get along better, bring them closer together etc. Very often it is the woman who desires the relationship strongly, and persuades the man to try, it, in some cases the man is quite reluctant. DD, for many people, improves their marriage immensely.
Christain domestic …
Christain domestic discipline… Omg , catholics and protestants… Abusing christianity once again… gays… Orthodox christians would never do such a thing… Maybe coz we orthodox christians arent that idiotical as catholics and protestants… Domestic discipline wtf? Sounds like they are talking about animals not humans. other christian groups… I just hate em…
@HighVoltage963 Wow …
@HighVoltage963 Wow? Really? You consider that an “attack”? I’m sorry but you have repeatedly asked me for “specifics” as if you required graphic descriptions and were not able to fill what seemed like pretty obvious details for yourself. And just for the record, saying that someone has no self respect and that they need to “convince” themselves about the validity of their relationship is actually rather rude and personal could be also be considered an attack.
@swl3 “Is it that …
@swl3 “Is it that you need the juicy details or pictures perhaps? “, is what I took issue with. Has nothing to do with your lifestyle, but like I said I’m done. I made 0 personal attacks toward you, and you say that shit? Unless I’m just taking what you say to mean something you don’t mean. Either way, I’m done.
@HighVoltage963 Did …
@HighVoltage963 Did you *really* say that in all seriousness? That’s actually quite funny. You’ve done nothing but question *my* motives. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black. Amazing!!! If you don’t want to hear a reply that doesn’t fit in with your personal views of how other people should live their lives, then why ask the questions in the first place?
@HighVoltage963 …
@HighVoltage963 Okay let’s see. “Consent” is when a person gives another person permission to do something. Emotional and physical abuse” is when they force it on someone against their will.. DD is discipline to which the disciplinee has consented and is therefore not “abuse”. “Spanking” is slapping the buttocks with a hand or implement with reasonable force. “Abuse” is punching, hitting, pushing, beating, drawing blood, breaking bones, raping etc. Is that “specific” enough for you?
@swl3 Don’t even …
@swl3 Don’t even bother, if you’re more concerned with questioning my motives than nty.
@HighVoltage963 ” …
@HighVoltage963 “The question which I have asked at least once before is what is too far?. I’m sorry, but exactly is it that you are not able to understand about this reply posted several hours ago? “Too far” in my opinion and that of other DD couples I know would be if it wasn’t consensual or if it caused physical or emotional injury”. Is it that you need the juicy details or pictures perhaps? There is isn’t room to give you that in one post so I’ll explain it another.
@swl3 The question …
@swl3 The question which I have asked at least once before is what is too far? I asked this question in the comment that you’re responding to. Here’s what I want you to answer, if you cannot answer these I wont continue on with this conversation. What is too far (be specific), What is domestic abuse, and how does your relationship differ (from domestic abuse). I can freely answer these. questions.
@HighVoltage963 I …
@HighVoltage963 I don’t feel a need to *convince* you of anything. All that matters is that my style of relationship works pretty well for me and for many, many others of my acquaintanceship. The fact that it would not work for you and your ‘BDSM’ friends is perfectly okay, but makes no difference to me. As for “avoiding the question”, while you have been quick to accuse on this score, you have yourself yet to articulate on what “the question” is.
@HighVoltage963 …
@HighVoltage963 While the video refers to one CDD site, it is nevertheless a wholesale condemnation of the principle of CDD in general. “My position”, as you put it, is relevant because I am in a CDD relationship and am therefore able to represent the other side of the debate. I realise that you don’t agree, but in my world, every question has two sides.
@swl3 No self …
@swl3 No self respecting person (whether in a d/s relationship or not) would say it would make no sense to take back some control if something is done to you that you don’t like. I’ve talked to plenty of people who are in BDSM relationships, and can speak from personal experience that would suggest just the opposite of what you said.
@swl3 What makes me …
@swl3 What makes me wonder is why you brought forward your position in this topic if it doesn’t apply, and why you kept avoiding some of the questions (which still haven’t been answered). Are you trying to convince *me* or *you* that it’s how your relationship is? I don’t know, nor do I expect an answer. And as far as you avoiding the question, you haven’t answered what is too far, of which I don’t really expect an answer. You can give me a vague physical or emotional injury but elaborate.
@HighVoltage963 You …
@HighVoltage963 You asked how we dealt with those situations on which my husband was wrong. I told you. What “degree” of the question have I “avoided”, please?
@HighVoltage963 Yes …
@HighVoltage963 Yes, I would say that, in common with about 99% of the couples in the world, I’m not in a position to do more than *tell* my husband that I don’t agree with some of his actions and decisions. The only difference between us and all those other couples is that, in our case, he has my permission to discipline me in certain circumstances. For me it would “make no sense” to my husband in charge and then pull back control whenever I disliked something he did.
@swl3 So you can …
@swl3 So you can merely say that you think it’s wrong? But have no position to do anything? And he must “discipline himself”? Makes no sense to me. And still to some degree is avoiding question.
St Paul lived at a …
St Paul lived at a time when women belonged legally and socially to their fathers who then traded them into marriage with a man chosen by them. A wife was in effect no more than a piece of her husband’s property to be treated as well or badly as he wished and he had no obligations to her at all.
St Paul was the person who told men that God required them to love, cherish, and value their wives as their own bodies. Women hater? Hardly. By the standards of the time he was an enlightened man.
@HighVoltage963 I …
@HighVoltage963 I do know couples who ’switch’ but as someone who has been in a D/s relationship, you must surely be aware that switching doesn’t suit every personality. If I think my husband is wrong, I’m not prohibited from saying so, either before or after the point of decision. Just as with any other couple, sometimes he agrees with that and sometimes he doesn’t. He has been known to ‘discipline’ himself by ‘grounding’ himself from an activity he enjoys.
@swl3 No of course …
@swl3 No of course not, in fact I’m single atm. Of course it depends on the context in which I’m wrong. We talked, we yelled, depends on the relationship. Within my BDSM life if my Domme did something wrong, I told her. Sometimes we gave each other or space, sometimes it wasn’t that easy. Granted we were in a switching type of relationship, but even when I was the sub if she did something wrong, there were things that she would do even as a domme to make due if she had done something wrong.