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		<title>How to Save Your Marriage -This Quote Will Change Your Life!</title>
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<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s not about FINDING the right person&#8230; It&#8217;s about BEING the right person.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Black Marriage/ Help!!!!My Man Is Close Minded Sexually/ B Intentional/ Black Love</title>
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		<title>Healthy Marriage : Facts &amp; Fiction Part 3 Dr. Wally Goddard</title>
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		<title>video invitation to you all for my marriage on 2nd may</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 06:36:19 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://i.ytimg.com/vi/upPI5fDYLk4/2.jpg" align="left">sorry for d delay&#8230; but finally, here&#8217;s d video invitation to all of you my friends&#8230;.</p>
<p>i hope this video will help in your decision to come to attend my <a href="http://www.pickinupthepieces.org" target=_self>marriage</a> and also clear the doubts regarding the same&#8230;</p>
<p>And as i said earlier, i do disclose d name of my girl in d vdo along wid a pic of ours together&#8230;  <img src='http://www.pickinupthepieces.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>12/16/07 4/4  GIVE GOD MY MARRIAGE..AND HE GIVES ME</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 04:31:10 +0000</pubDate>
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James 4:1-3
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&#8220;&#8230;God raises the dead to life and creates new things.&#8221;
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<p>I Give God My <a href="http://www.pickinupthepieces.org" target=_self>marriage</a>&#8230;And He Gives Me Something New.<br />
God&#8217;s Gift Exchange &#8212; Part 3<br />
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James 4:1-3</p>
<p>&#8220;A home filled with strife and division destroys itself.&#8221; Mark 3:25 (LB)</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;God raises the dead to life and creates new things.&#8221;<br />
Romans 4:17b (CEV)</p>
<p>I.  What Causes Conflicts?<br />
James 4:1-3<br />
What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don&#8217;t they come from your desires that battle within you?  You want something but don&#8217;t get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God.  When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.</p>
<p>&#8220;Do you know where your fights and arguments come from? They come from the selfish desires that war within you.&#8221; James 4:1 (NCV)</p>
<p>&#8220;My Way&#8221;     &#8220;No Way&#8221;     &#8220;Your Way&#8221;     &#8220;Half Way&#8221;     &#8220;Our Way&#8221;</p>
<p>II.  How Do We Pull Together After We&#8217;ve Pulled Apart?</p>
<p>1. Ask God For Help.</p>
<p>&#8220;You quarrel and fight.  You do not have, because you do not                   ask God.&#8221; James 4:2b (NIV)</p>
<p>2.  Realize My Part In The Problem</p>
<p>&#8220;Why do you look at the speck in your brother&#8217;s eye but don&#8217;t notice the log in your own eye?  Hypocrite! First take the log out of                    your eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out                                  of your brother&#8217;s eye.&#8221;  Matthew 7:3, 5 (HCSB)</p>
<p>3.  Be Intentional About Solving Issues</p>
<p>&#8220;If you remember someone has something against you, leave your gift at the altar and go at once to make peace&#8230; Then come back and offer your gift to God.&#8221; Matthew 5:23-24 (GN)</p>
<p>4.  Stop The Abusive Language</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. &#8221;  Ephesians 4:29 (NLT)</p>
<p>&#8220;You must quit being angry, hateful, and evil. You must no longer say insulting or cruel things about others.  And stop lying to each other. You have given up your old way of life with its habits.&#8221;                               Colossians 3:8b-9 (CEV)</p>
<p>5.  Place Yourself In Their Shoes.</p>
<p>&#8220;We must bear the &#8220;burden&#8221; of being considerate of the doubts and fears of others&#8230;&#8221;  Romans 15:1-2 (LB)</p>
<p>&#8220;Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.&#8221;  Philippians 2:4 (NIV)</p>
<p>6.   Focus On Reconciling, Not Resolving.</p>
<p> &#8220;Reconciliation&#8221; &#8211; to reestablish the relationship<br />
 &#8220;Resolution&#8221; &#8211; to resolve every issue</p>
<p>&#8220;The wisdom from above is first of all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere.&#8221;                        James 3:17 (NLT)</p>
<p>&#8220;Let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful.&#8221;  Col. 3:15 (NKJV)</p>
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		<title>please don&#8217;t go</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 22:30:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>What NOT To Do To Save Your Marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 18:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>12/16/07 2/4 I GIVE GOD MY MARRIAGE..AND HE GIVES ME&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..Lincoln Avenue Baptist Church ~ 1310 East Lincoln Avenue  Orange CA, 92865 ~ 714.637.0301  church 92808 christian baptist</title>
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&#8220;A home filled with strife and division destroys itself.&#8221; Mark 3:25 (LB)
&#8220;&#8230;God raises the dead to life and creates new things.&#8221;
Romans 4:17b (CEV)
I.  What Causes Conflicts?
James 4:1-3
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God&#8217;s Gift Exchange &#8212; Part 3<br />
December 16th, 2007<br />
James 4:1-3</p>
<p>&#8220;A home filled with strife and division destroys itself.&#8221; Mark 3:25 (LB)</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;God raises the dead to life and creates new things.&#8221;<br />
Romans 4:17b (CEV)</p>
<p>I.  What Causes Conflicts?<br />
James 4:1-3<br />
What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don&#8217;t they come from your desires that battle within you?  You want something but don&#8217;t get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God.  When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.</p>
<p>&#8220;Do you know where your fights and arguments come from? They come from the selfish desires that war within you.&#8221; James 4:1 (NCV)</p>
<p>&#8220;My Way&#8221;     &#8220;No Way&#8221;     &#8220;Your Way&#8221;     &#8220;Half Way&#8221;     &#8220;Our Way&#8221;</p>
<p>II.  How Do We Pull Together After We&#8217;ve Pulled Apart?</p>
<p>1. Ask God For Help.</p>
<p>&#8220;You quarrel and fight.  You do not have, because you do not                   ask God.&#8221; James 4:2b (NIV)</p>
<p>2.  Realize My Part In The Problem</p>
<p>&#8220;Why do you look at the speck in your brother&#8217;s eye but don&#8217;t notice the log in your own eye?  Hypocrite! First take the log out of                    your eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out                                  of your brother&#8217;s eye.&#8221;  Matthew 7:3, 5 (HCSB)</p>
<p>3.  Be Intentional About Solving Issues</p>
<p>&#8220;If you remember someone has something against you, leave your gift at the altar and go at once to make peace&#8230; Then come back and offer your gift to God.&#8221; Matthew 5:23-24 (GN)</p>
<p>4.  Stop The Abusive Language</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. &#8221;  Ephesians 4:29 (NLT)</p>
<p>&#8220;You must quit being angry, hateful, and evil. You must no longer say insulting or cruel things about others.  And stop lying to each other. You have given up your old way of life with its habits.&#8221;                               Colossians 3:8b-9 (CEV)</p>
<p>5.  Place Yourself In Their Shoes.</p>
<p>&#8220;We must bear the &#8220;burden&#8221; of being considerate of the doubts and fears of others&#8230;&#8221;  Romans 15:1-2 (LB)</p>
<p>&#8220;Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.&#8221;  Philippians 2:4 (NIV)</p>
<p>6.   Focus On Reconciling, Not Resolving.</p>
<p> &#8220;Reconciliation&#8221; &#8211; to reestablish the relationship<br />
 &#8220;Resolution&#8221; &#8211; to resolve every issue</p>
<p>&#8220;The wisdom from above is first of all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere.&#8221;                        James 3:17 (NLT)</p>
<p>&#8220;Let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful.&#8221;  Col. 3:15 (NKJV)</p>
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		<title>12/16/07 1/4 I GIVE GOD MY MARRIAGE..AND HE GIVES ME</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I Give God My marriage&#8230;And He Gives Me Something New.
God&#8217;s Gift Exchange &#8212; Part 3
December 16th, 2007
James 4:1-3
&#8220;A home filled with strife and division destroys itself.&#8221; Mark 3:25 (LB)
&#8220;&#8230;God raises the dead to life and creates new things.&#8221;
Romans 4:17b (CEV)
I.  What Causes Conflicts?
James 4:1-3
What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don&#8217;t they come from [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://i.ytimg.com/vi/ogGtqaPSk2Y/2.jpg" align="left">I Give God My <a href="http://www.pickinupthepieces.org" target=_self>marriage</a>&#8230;And He Gives Me Something New.<br />
God&#8217;s Gift Exchange &#8212; Part 3</p>
<p>December 16th, 2007<br />
James 4:1-3</p>
<p>&#8220;A home filled with strife and division destroys itself.&#8221; Mark 3:25 (LB)</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;God raises the dead to life and creates new things.&#8221;<br />
Romans 4:17b (CEV)</p>
<p>I.  What Causes Conflicts?<br />
James 4:1-3<br />
What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don&#8217;t they come from your desires that battle within you?  You want something but don&#8217;t get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God.  When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.</p>
<p>&#8220;Do you know where your fights and arguments come from? They come from the selfish desires that war within you.&#8221; James 4:1 (NCV)</p>
<p>&#8220;My Way&#8221;     &#8220;No Way&#8221;     &#8220;Your Way&#8221;     &#8220;Half Way&#8221;     &#8220;Our Way&#8221;</p>
<p>II.  How Do We Pull Together After We&#8217;ve Pulled Apart?</p>
<p>1. Ask God For Help.</p>
<p>&#8220;You quarrel and fight.  You do not have, because you do not                   ask God.&#8221; James 4:2b (NIV)</p>
<p>2.  Realize My Part In The Problem</p>
<p>&#8220;Why do you look at the speck in your brother&#8217;s eye but don&#8217;t notice the log in your own eye?  Hypocrite! First take the log out of                    your eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out                                  of your brother&#8217;s eye.&#8221;  Matthew 7:3, 5 (HCSB)</p>
<p>3.  Be Intentional About Solving Issues</p>
<p>&#8220;If you remember someone has something against you, leave your gift at the altar and go at once to make peace&#8230; Then come back and offer your gift to God.&#8221; Matthew 5:23-24 (GN)</p>
<p>4.  Stop The Abusive Language</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. &#8221;  Ephesians 4:29 (NLT)</p>
<p>&#8220;You must quit being angry, hateful, and evil. You must no longer say insulting or cruel things about others.  And stop lying to each other. You have given up your old way of life with its habits.&#8221;                               Colossians 3:8b-9 (CEV)</p>
<p>5.  Place Yourself In Their Shoes.</p>
<p>&#8220;We must bear the &#8220;burden&#8221; of being considerate of the doubts and fears of others&#8230;&#8221;  Romans 15:1-2 (LB)</p>
<p>&#8220;Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.&#8221;  Philippians 2:4 (NIV)</p>
<p>6.   Focus On Reconciling, Not Resolving.</p>
<p> &#8220;Reconciliation&#8221; &#8211; to reestablish the relationship<br />
 &#8220;Resolution&#8221; &#8211; to resolve every issue</p>
<p>&#8220;The wisdom from above is first of all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere.&#8221;                        James 3:17 (NLT)</p>
<p>&#8220;Let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful.&#8221;  Col. 3:15 (NKJV)</p>
<p>Lincoln Avenue Baptist Church</p>
<p>http://lincolnavenueonline.com/our_be&#8230;</p>
<p>1310 E Lincon Avenue Orange Ca 92865<br />
Serving the real Orange County Ca.<br />
Orange Villa Park Yorba Linda Tustin<br />
Anaheim Hills Santa Ana Anaheim Placentia<br />
Huntington Beach </p>
<p>Pastor Abel Galban<br />
Worship leader Lonnie Pyle</p>
<p>Lincoln Avenue is a diverse fellowship of Christians Serving the Lord in North Orange County Calif. We are located in Orange Ca. we also serve Yorba Linda Placentia Anaheim Hills Villa Park Tustin Ranch Costa Mesa Fullerton Santa Ana Westminster Huntington Beach<br />
Irvine Newport Beach and Lake Forest </p>
<p>If you are planning a visit to Disneyland<br />
we invite you to join us on Any Sunday<br />
meet the real people of the OC</p>
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